Expecting too much?

"You're expecting too much as a friend", this is what she said to me...

I tried not to think about it anymore, I tried to get over it but I can't, it hurts..

What is not expecting too much? I just wanted to catch up, to chat, to have a drink together... Why is it expecting too much?

Do you mean situation like now is what you want? Not talking at all means not expecting and you like it this way?