Positive thinking

Recently I was told by my colleague that I have changed. In fact I did see things in a different way. I didn't realize what was the changes I just felt things are going on smoother than last year. Only then I realize it was because the dedication I have towards people and work has reduced. I tend to focus on priorities and things that will turn out to have positive result leaving aside a lot of things that aren't important to me that I used to care. Not only I find everything going on smoother I actually felt more relieved. Somehow I realized no matter how much effort and time spent if it is towards something only I alone care, it won't work. Nothing works if you're on your own while others don't give a shit. Even if you think it's for someone's sake that you're doing it, eventually it just don't work.

I went to Joey Yap's talk on metaphysics, in this event, I learnt something important in life, not anything regarding my "Ba Zi" but it's the motivation message from Joey that I think it's really true. In life, you will always face difficulty, so should you just sit down and cry or be scared for the rest of your life? The answer is definitely "NO", in fact, stay focus to all other positive events and totally ignore whatever negative. This is exactly how human stay positive. I believe in this way the act of committing suicide or depression will decrease.

I also read an article online saying that we shouldn't be frustrated over anyone's behaviour. It's of course easier to be said than done. But yes, it's true, be unreactive. Reaction is always a choice, choose to be unreactive and stay cool towards everything is the best way to control emotion. I totally agree when the author said reacting towards what other people said or done means being manipulated by your reaction and you lose all power to choose your response. Someone I know from work told me this "If you don't care for it, it won't affect your emotion", very well said but at that moment I was struggling with my emotions that I couldn't see how to do it.

I'm trying my very best to stay cool to whatever I face, in fact it's no big deal seriously....

Leave it behind, nothing matters after all..